Vow Renewal Scripts

My standard vow renewal ceremony scripts are thoughtfully crafted to honor the enduring love and commitment couples have built over time, with options for Christian, Handfasting, and Secular ceremonies. Each script reflects the essence of your shared journey—whether rooted in faith, enriched by meaningful traditions, or centered around personal vows and heartfelt promises that celebrate the life you've created together. Designed with flexibility in mind, these scripts can be personalized to create a ceremony that feels authentic, meaningful, and true to your story, ensuring your vow renewal is as memorable and special as the love you continue to share.

Christian Vow Renewal

INVOCATION / SERVICE OF WORSHIP

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here in the presence of God, family, and friends to celebrate a sacred occasion—the vow renewal of [Partner A] and [Partner B]. This ceremony is a joyful testament to the enduring love and faith that have guided them through the years of their marriage.

Marriage is a covenant, a sanctuary built on the foundation of love, trust, and God’s grace. It is not entered into lightly, and today, as [Partner A] and [Partner B] stand before us, they reaffirm the sacred promises they made, giving thanks for the blessings of their shared journey.

Let us pray:Heavenly Father, we thank You for the gift of love and the sacred bond of marriage. Bless [Partner A] and [Partner B] as they renew their vows, and continue to guide them with Your light, grace, and unwavering presence. Amen.

SCRIPTURE READING1

Corinthians 13:4-7“Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.”

This passage reflects the spirit of love that [Partner A] and [Partner B] carry in their hearts—the promise to love one another as Christ loves us: fully, honestly, and unconditionally.

DECLARATION OF INTENT[

Partner A] and [Partner B], as you stand here before God, your family, and friends, I ask you to reaffirm your intentions:

Officiant to [Partner A]:Have you come here freely and with a heart full of love to renew your vows to [Partner B]?Do you promise to continue loving, honoring, and cherishing them, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, as long as you both shall live?[Partner A]: I do.

Officiant to [Partner B]:Have you come here freely and with a heart full of love to renew your vows to [Partner A]?Do you promise to continue loving, honoring, and cherishing them, in good times and in bad, in sickness and in health, as long as you both shall live?[Partner B]: I do.

EXCHANGE OF VOWS AND RINGS

You may now exchange your vows, sharing the words that reflect your journey together and the promises you wish to carry forward.

(The couple exchanges renewed vows. Rings may also be exchanged or blessed as a symbol of their continued devotion.)

BLESSING OF THE MARRIAGE

Heavenly Father, bless this union. May [Partner A] and [Partner B] continue to walk in faith, love, and partnership. Strengthen their bond, guide them with Your wisdom, and fill their hearts with peace, joy, and gratitude. Amen.

PRONOUNCEMENT OF VOW RENEWAL

Having witnessed the renewal of your vows and the reaffirmation of your love, it is my honor to pronounce you once again as partners in life and marriage.

You may seal your vows with a kiss.

PRESENTATION OF THE COUPLE

Ladies and gentlemen, it is my great joy to reintroduce to you [Partner A] and [Partner B], partners in life, bound by love and blessed by faith.

Hanfasting Vow Renewal

WELCOME & OPENING WORDSMerry Meet! Welcome, and thank you for joining us today to celebrate the vow renewal and handfasting of [Partner A] and [Partner B]. This ceremony is a beautiful symbol of enduring love, a reaffirmation of the vows and promises that have guided their journey together. Handfasting is an age-old tradition that represents not just a binding of hands but a deep, heartfelt commitment—a renewal of strength, devotion, and the unwavering support they continue to offer one another.

[Partner A] and [Partner B], you have shared years of laughter, faced challenges with resilience, and nurtured a bond that has grown stronger with each passing day. Today, you stand before your family and friends to renew your vows, celebrating the love that has deepened, the memories you’ve created, and the life you’ve built together.

You have both chosen to renew your commitment, to honor the journey you’ve taken, and to pledge once more to continue growing together. Is this true?

THE COUPLE ANSWERS: (Either one at a time or in unison)Couple: It is.

VOW RENEWAL AND HANDFASTING BINDINGAs I wrap this cord around your hands, it symbolizes the strength of your union, woven from years of shared experiences, love, and growth. This binding is a reflection of your journey—the lessons learned, the milestones celebrated, and the promises that still hold true.

(The officiant gently wraps the cord around the couple's joined hands, securing it in a single knot to represent their unified bond.)

EXCHANGE OF VOWS (OPTIONAL)You may now speak your renewed vows, sharing the words that reflect your heart and the promises you carry forward into the next chapter of your life together.

(The couple exchanges renewed vows. Rings may also be exchanged or blessed if desired.)

OPTIONAL BLESSINGMay the elements bless this union—earth for continued stability, air for clear communication, fire for renewed passion, and water for deep emotional connection. May your days be filled with laughter, your hearts with understanding, and your love with endless growth.

PRONOUNCEMENT[Partner A] and [Partner B], with hearts joined, hands bound, and vows renewed, I pronounce you handfasted once again, partners in life, love, and spirit. Thank you for sharing this beautiful moment with us. May this bond continue to strengthen and inspire the love you already hold for one another.

(The couple may embrace or kiss, and the cord or ribbon is gently slipped off to be kept as a cherished symbol of their renewed commitment.)

CLOSING WORDSAs we conclude this ceremony, let us celebrate [Partner A] and [Partner B]—their journey, their love, and the path they continue to walk together. May your hearts remain forever bound in joy, understanding, and endless devotion.

Secular Vow Renewal

INVOCATION

Dear friends and family, we are gathered here today to celebrate the enduring love and commitment shared by [Partner A] and [Partner B]. Over the years, their bond has grown stronger, built on a foundation of trust, partnership, and cherished memories. Today, they stand before you, ready to renew the vows they once made, reaffirming their promise to continue walking life’s path hand in hand.

DECLARATION OF INTENT

Officiant to [Partner A]:Do you, [Partner A], continue to choose [Partner B] as your beloved partner, to have and to hold, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, support, and cherish from this day forward?[Partner A]: I do.

Officiant to [Partner B]:Do you, [Partner B], continue to choose [Partner A] as your beloved partner, to have and to hold, for better or for worse, for richer or poorer, in sickness and in health, to love, support, and cherish from this day forward?[Partner B]: I do.

EXCHANGE OF VOWS AND RINGS (OPTIONAL)

You may now exchange your vows, sharing heartfelt words that reflect the journey you’ve traveled together and the promises you wish to carry forward.

(The couple exchanges vows and, if desired, renews their rings as a symbol of their lasting commitment.)

PRONOUNCEMENT

Having reaffirmed your vows and the promises that unite you, it is my great honor to pronounce you once again as partners in life and love.

Officiant to the Gathering:Family and friends, I present to you, with joy and celebration, [Partner A] and [Partner B]!

(The couple may seal their renewed vows with a kiss, followed by applause and celebration.)